I've been on many dating sites. You name it, I more in likely have a profile on it. The responses, the ads everything I read, the emails and messages I receive make me shake my head and say seriously!! Where are the sweet, gentleman types. The ones that actually have something to say, depth to there being and honesty. The guys that are ready to "MAYBE" settle down. Or at least have an adult relationship without holding past pretenses of PAST relationships against possible new ones?
I have a reason for writing this and it has got me a bit up in arms. Yet again I found a decent guy and start chatting with him. He tells me "I have a couple questions before I continue one with this conversation, they are sorta kinda deal breakers so I have to ask them right away." I say alright. Thinking that sure, everyone has a few questions they like to have answers to.
The first two were rather normal questions..Do I like to cuddle, do I have allergies? And then the 3rd is what set me off. Do you have multiple personalities. (Granted this could have been a joke. But he was ever so serious) He then stated that he's a bit picky when it comes to possibly making a long term relationship. Then he explains why he asked about multiple personalities and it went like this...
"I dated a girl for 3 months and she failed to inform me that she had multiple personalities.. and I found out at the worst time. We were having sex and she was on top of me and said "oh, you must be Emily's boyfriend."
To this I simply say TO MUCH INFORMATION!! Why is it he felt this was an important question? And how is it that guys (the ones I've been meeting) find it necessary to compare and assume your just like every other girl they've ever been involved with?
I'm not ranting so much as sharing yet another funny story in terms of my life. And this isn't the beginning and I'm pretty sure this isn't going to be the end of these....so stay tuned. I'm sure there will be more to come. :)
